Raising children up to their teenage years can be smooth sailing for a number of years, but sometimes that ease can come to an abrupt end. This may be at puberty, teenage years or even earlier. That sense of control and order you may have enjoyed is suddenly turned on its head and you are left floundering as your child develops new interests that may not include you.
Whilst it can be a quite emotional time, there are some things you can try, to help transition through a difficult period. Your child will inevitably desire more independence as he or she develops. This doesn’t mean you cannot still be an active participant in their life.
Patience and a little planning can enable the time together you may desire. When your child suddenly no longer wants to go to the movies with you, but wants to hang with their friends all the time, it can be quite a difficult situation. There are however many activities you can plan so you have time together, yet still give them the ability to develop their own independence.
Raising Children Network gives some examples of things you could try:
Your kids don’t have to be strangers - make an effort and it should pay off.
Whether they are playing the role of a head chef, baker, cafe owner, kitchen porter, parent or waiter, children love playing different roles and scenarios in imaginative play.
With a play kitchen, your child can imagine themselves in all kinds of roles while rustling up some mouth-watering imaginary treats
Let your child’s imagination soar with a super cute, easy to assemble and customizable outdoorcubby house! By offering your child their very own space, they will be able to create a whole new world where they are in charge. Here, they can role play, exercise their independence and share special memories with their friends for years to come. When the kids are wrapped up in their own private world, it frees up time for their parents as well - a win/ win for everyone!
When tostart your child at school is a major decision for parents. Naturally parents want their children to thrive and flourish, and not struggle to keep up or stay on top of things.
School readiness is a measure of the knowledge, skills and behaviours that enable your child to participate and succeed in school.